Why Forgiveness is the most powerful Tool for Humanity now
The Power of Forgiveness can never be overstated.
However, due to historical developments and many Millenia of Karma, Forgiveness is one of the most misunderstood concepts in human existence.
Many believe that Forgiveness means waiting for someone else’s approval. For someone else to release and relieve them of their guilt.
For Jesus to come and pick You up, no matter what You did.
Holding onto that belief, another 2.000 years will pass, and it will never come true.
The Pope himself could say “The Lord forgave You” and the King himself could pardon You – yet You will come to find out that none of that matters.
Because Your Guilt is YOUR Guilt.
No one can alleviate it or make it go away.
No matter how much You donate to Charity, how much You ignore Your Guilt or drown it in various distractions or substances of choice.
No matter how much You chastise Yourself and seek karmic redemption through Your own Suffering. None of it will work.
You will have to come to terms with yourSelf.
Only Forgiveness will set You free.
Forgiveness is Remembering Truth
Remembering what happened, knowing what was wrong and what is right now.
Asking someone for Forgiveness is the humblest of actions You can take.
The Pain, the Shame, the Guilt – it all leaves You.
Your Ego, your false Identity with all its false belief systems, will crumble and falter.
Asking for Forgiveness means that You are ready to receive Divine Judgment.
Whatever happens now is out of your hands entirely. You have no control over your Fate.
When I went on my first Hero’s Journey that led to my Death and then reincarnation “on the spot” , I gave up my fight, went down on my knees and was ready to surrender my entire existence. I had no fight left in me.
You become powerful by recognizing that there are Greater Powers than You.
Learning from them, listening to them, heeding their guidance.
All that becomes possible through Forgiveness.
Step 1: Awareness
Everything begins with Awareness. Awareness is Consciousness. If You are not aware of how You have been wronged or You have wronged someone, then You are in Denial.
“Oh, it’s okay that X did this to me.”
“X deserved what I did to them.”
It is that very belief that will keep You stuck in a karmic loop forever.
Denial leads to Illusion.
Illusion is the essence of Pain & Suffering.
Thanks to Awareness, You can start seeing Truth and find the reason(s) why You are not feeling well.
Key indicators of needing Forgiveness are Shame, Guilt and Regrets.
If something is either metaphorically or literally haunting You, then that is for good reason.
Nightmares, Demons, being stuck in the same loop, again and again… Until You start facing the demons that You created or invited, You can never hope to be free.
Ask YourSelf this: What is blocking me from living the Truth in my Heart and Soul?
What have I done that does not align with who I truly am?
Once You have identified who You have wronged or that someone else has wronged You, You need to go deeply within and find out why it happened. Before either Asking for Forgiveness (Step 3A) or Offering Forgiveness (Step 3B) can be done, You have to be clear with your Intentions.
Remember: Intention is Key.
Step 2: Honest Reflection – Why did it happen?
Now that You have taken the first step toward Forgiveness, You have to ask yourSelf:
- Why did this happen to me?
OR
- Why did I do this to him/her?
Ultimately, everything that needs Forgiveness has been done out of the alignment of your Soul. It has not been done from your Heart. For otherwise, Forgiveness would not be necessary and all would be well.
The whole point of Forgiveness is to ascend out of Negativity, false beliefs and lower Frequencies into a State of Love and 5-dimensional Frequency (or higher) that makes You immune to Negativity and feelings of Guilt or Shame.
So,ask yourSelf: Why did I allow him/her to do this to me? What fundamental belief do I have that led to this situation?
Practical example 1
You believe that You do not deserve to feel loved unless You do X, Y or Z, then ask yourSelf:
Where does this belief come from? Who instilled this belief in me? My parents? My teachers? TV? Society at large? All of them?
Love is not a Doing.
Love is a State of Being and the Ultimate Truth of who You are and what your Soul is.
From a place of being Love can Love then be ‘done’ or ‘made’.
Is it the lack of Love You felt from your other-sex parent (girl to Father, boy to Mother) that leads You to humiliating yourSelf for the sake of ‘Love’ from someone else?
For the more advanced among You: Is this something that happened in a Past life of mine and I am re-enacting this belief once again, as Karma would have it?
Practical example 2
If You abuse your Body and your Mind with Alcohol, Drugs, excessive exercise, overworking yourSelf or other means, then what is the root cause of this?
All these choices are simply means to suppress how You really feel.
And as anyone with an addiction knows: It never gets any better. It is a downward spiral that destroys You, bit by bit.
To break this vicious cycle, You have to go deep within and recognize the true cause of your self-destructive behavior.
A powerful practice of Self-Reflection – such as going on walks in Nature, Meditation, Breathwork – are the best way to find answers.
Always remember this: Deep within, You already know. You simply need to confront the Pain and Trauma to realize what powers it.
Once you have determined if your Pain is one that stems from something You have done to another (go to Step 3A) or something that You have had done to You (go to Step 3B), You need to now take Action and do the most important part: Ask or offer Forgiveness.
Step 3A: Ask for Forgiveness
Now that you have realized, through the act of honest remembering, what you have done wrong: Go to the recipient of your wrongdoings and ask them for Forgiveness. Naturally, this will either be someone else or YOU.
If it happens to be someone else and that person is already dead or You simply cannot reach them due to lack of Resonance, then simply ask their Soul for Forgiveness.
Even though the person you wronged may still try to accuse You or insult You, You are invoking the Divine Law that is Forgiveness.
It cannot be overruled, and it cannot be denied.
Once You honestly ask for Forgiveness, it is done.
Invoking the Law of Forgiveness, you can absolve yourself of any and all karmic debt that binds You to a painful Past that tortures and repeatedly traumatizes You.
What happens here is the Integration of a Shadow aspect into/through your Heart. Any energy that is channeled through the Heart will inevitably be transformed from Darkness to Light. From Hatred to Love.
I can personally attest to the absolute power that is Forgiveness. When my journey of Past Life Remembering began intensely in late 2018, I realized things about mySelf so dark that I never thought I could be forgiven – or let alone forgive mySelf for doing them. Fortunately, I was entirely wrong, and I have since integrated all my Shadows to serve my Light.
Step 3B: Offer Forgiveness
If You have realized that You have been wronged, then it is time for You to pave the way for releasing the pain and any associated false beliefs that formed on the basis of that pain and trauma.
When You forgive someone – once again either by directly contacting someone or talking to their Soul – You are not saying that it was okay what they did to You. You are reclaiming your Power and absolve yourSelf of the pain that they inflicted upon You.
Let us use a practical and extreme example here to drive this point home:
You have been raped, i.e. forced into a sexual act with which You did not agree. This can either happen through violent force (masculine Shadow) or manipulation and passive mind control (feminine Shadow).
Especially if this happened to You as a child before reaching puberty, deeply traumatizing beliefs can be formed such as “I cannot trust men/women” or “I am not worth anything” or “sex is bad and dangerous.” If these beliefs are not changed, they will deteriorate into “I probably deserved to be raped” or “I will never be worthy of Love” or, at worst, “I should rape someone else to absolve myself of this pain.”
Now, if You choose to forgive the person who raped You, You reclaim your Power as a divine being. You reclaim your innocence. You shed those beliefs and you free yourSelf from their dark grip.
You can say “I reclaim my innocence and my power from this terrible thing You did to me. I choose to forgive You because I want to be free from this pain and suffering.”
I cannot highlight this enough: This is not to say that the act of being raped was in any way okay.
You have to ask yourSelf one simple question: Do I want to give someone else power over me, my life, my happiness?
If the answer is NO, then forgive them.
If this seems impossible for now, then You have made the first step regardless. Some events are so deeply traumatizing, they might need years to be completely healed.
Just like You don’t start playing the piano like Mozart after 1 day of practice, neither will You become a Master of Forgiveness from 1 practice.
Step 4: Compassion
Now once You made it here, it does not matter anymore if You did something wrong to someone else or something wrong has been done to You.
What matters is this: Can You allow yourSelf to feel the pain? Your own pain and the pain of the other person?
Compassion is directly related to The Law of One.
No one, not You or anyone else, acts out of hatred and commits a dark deed without them being in pain.
Truly understanding why someone does what they do requires You to see yourSelf in their stead.
Again, You do not have to agree with their actions.
But everyone has reasons to do what they do and believe what they believe – no matter how wrong that may be.
The more You ascend in Consciousness, You will be able to see everything much more neutrally and thus gain a perspective that is enlightened, i.e. without pain and false judgment.
Step 5: Accept what happened
You now have to simply accept what happened. This is crucial to not revert back to the old story and to revel in regret.
You cannot go back in time and undo what has been done.
You can, however, acknowledge and accept that it did happen.
There is no denying it. It is what it is.
Make your Peace with it and integrate it as a part of your life’s journey. Not everything in life is meant to be great and joyful. In fact, living on Earth has for the longest time been – and still is to this day – an experience of stark contrasts. Everyone on Earth first figures out what they do not want and do not like, or what is wrong and unpleasant before they realize what is right and what it is that they want.
And who they want to be.
Acceptance, Self-Acceptance most of all, is the key to Self-Love and living a Life of pure Joy. A Life that You can feel grateful for, honestly from your Heart and integrated into your Soul’s Truth.
Step 6: Look for Gratitude
The best indicator You can look for to see if your Act of Forgiveness worked? Gratitude.
Gratitude for the strength it took to overcome the negativity and choose Forgiveness and therefore Love. Gratitude for the lessons that the experience taught You. You learned more about how You are and what You truly want in Life thanks to that experience. As horrible as it may have been – it made You who You are. Every aspect of You is divine.
Frame the negative experience in a different Light: How did this make me a better person?
It could have taught you Compassion, Strength, Courage, Self-Acceptance, Boundaries and so much more.
Mastery on Earth means overcoming great challenges. You as a Soul came here to show yourSelf how great You truly are.
There is nothing more amazing, nothing more impressive, than finding your way Home into Love & Light after being lost in Fear & Darkness.
In fact, this is the very reason that Planet Earth is such a difficult yet amazing school to participate in.
Step 7: Enjoy your Freedom
Now all that is left for You to do is to enjoy the Freedom. Freedom from pain, from suffering.
You are free from everything You don’t want to feel and experience.
Where there was pain once, now there is Joy.
Now that You have mastered this particular challenge, You can teach others how to do it.
The greatest Joy is the Joy that is shared – for it is potentiated and multiplied many times over.
Freedom means to be free of pain, suffering and illusion. And only Forgiveness can get You there.
What happens if I choose not to ask for or offer Forgiveness?
Nothing good.
Let me tell You a story to explain what happens if You choose not to ask or offer Forgiveness.
I have seen this happen so many times.
When I honestly asked others for Forgiveness for something I had done to them, even going down on my knees, and they chose not to forgive me, they then increasingly followed a dark path of vengeance, illusion, and hatred.
Once that choice is made, it becomes easier to make it again – once You have gone the wrong way, You might as well continue, right?
In one particular instance from which I still have physical scars to this day, the spiritual guidance of my spiritual partner at the time clearly told her, as she told me, that “You can either forgive him now or You will have to do it in another life”.
That was her warning. The most profound Truth of her life so far stated in one single sentence. A fork in the road, a choice for Light or Darkness.
She chose not to forgive me and went on an ever-darker path thereafter.
What is the most popular of stories? The Hero that fell and became the Villain. The Jedi that became a Sith. The good that became evil.
These stories resonate so deeply with Humanity because they have to make that choice every do – big or small.
That is precisely why Jesus Christ is one of the most powerful stories ever told to humanity. Do not fall low like those who wronged You – but rise above, forgive them, and see it for what it is.
Fear, hatred, a closed Heart, and a lack of Soul.
Following hatred, anger and acting on the pain may seem alluring in the moment – like justice, even. But it will only lead to destruction. Your own and that of others.
You will eternally be the prisoner of your own victimhood rather than rising above and seeing that, on a Soul level, it was all agreed upon for the experience that You sought.
You can never hope to attain Mastery on Earth unless You learn and eventually master Forgiveness.
You will never feel Gratitude for Your Life unless Forgiveness is at the center of your Being.
The choice, as always, is yours.
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